I'm very depressed and hurt by the situation and embarrassed.
We have been married for about 18 months and he just isn't interested in sex. He says it's just him (lowered drive) but he's only 30. I'm only 24 and have a pretty high sex drive. Id be happy with at least 4 or 5 times a week (have the desire everyday).
I thought maybe it was depression and we went to doctor and he said he didn't think he was, although he shows classic signs.
Other things make me think its physical or mental. When I canb actually get him in the mood (maybe once a month if I'm lucky he most of the time gets into the foreplay and then will get an erection but it goes soft pretty much as soon as he tries to enter. He loses it completely and then gets all pissed off and mad at himself.
He says it isn't me but I'm not sure. Before we got married I said no sex before marriage and he was upset about that and wouldn't even make out or mess around
Answer by Bearsjen at 10:30 AM on Mar. 20, 2010
have him get is prostate checked also his hormones.
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