1.Ap says she can't have kids yet find out she gave birth years ago and gave baby up for adoption and told the BF baby died since he was abusive.
2.Was told she has tumors on the uterus was set to have surgery and a few days later has a miscarriage.
3.Was told she owns a store sents article than states she does no longer own it ?
4.Has already bought baby stuff despite no agreement and they have done this before and the adoptions did not happen.
5.Want me to deliver near them no matter what.
6.Have agreed to meet them after they have asked and seems to be put off now for one reason or another.They said afraid i will not think they good enough,well sorry i have a right to know.
7.They feel i have not disclosed enough about me yet,who they have not either expect over making me feel guilty about making them parents.
I do not want to feel i'm right and playing god over there lives but want what is best for the child.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:26 PM on Mar. 21, 2010 in Adoption
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Answer by Anonymous at 8:44 PM on Mar. 21, 2010
When in doubt just say you are sorry that this could not work out for them but they are not the best couple to be raising your child. No need for either set of people to get discouraged or upset. I hate the drama. If in doubt from any perspective then it just cannot be an appropriate match. If they try to contact you once you have said no then truly they have some issues they need to work on. If an agency is involved then they should not pursue it further as far as trying to convince you to give them another look. You have made up your mind. An agency can ask about your concerns, fears, and reservations about this couple or placing at all - they should. This will help with another possible placement that is better suited. But to pressure you to choose a couple you are not comfortable with it would have to be a run out the door as fast as possible for me.
Answer by frogdawg at 9:14 PM on Mar. 21, 2010
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