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How many times do you and your partner have sex? I want to know what is a normal sex life. We have 2 kids (1 is 6months old) and I wonder if our sex life is going down the tubes because we're always so busy & tired...

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:07 PM on Mar. 22, 2010 in Relationships

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  • We probably average 2 times a week. Sometimes more and sometimes less. It depends on our schedules really.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:09 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

  • My hubby and I have sex (lovin) maybe once a week. We are busy tired hard working parents.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:10 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

  • yup... its going downhill... we have a 7 yr old, 20 month old and a 4 month old... obviously we had time to make a baby but its non exisistant right now.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:10 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

  • my SO and i have 3 kids, and his brother has been staying with us to help because i just started school, we have sex probably 5 times a week, we make it a priority because if we don't, we feel like we are drifting apart. but just as as life has ups and downs, i've realized that sometimes other things happen and sometimes we'll go a week or so without sex.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:11 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

  • id say once a week. seems to sometimes happen 2 or 3 nights in a row when i am ovulating though. i guess he can smell my pheromones or something. but id say an average of once a week. we have a 6.5 month old and 20 month old.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:11 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

  • We have 3 kids. Some months I can count the number of times we have sex on one hand. We have an extremely strong marriage but sometimes sex just isn't as important as other things.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 4:12 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

  • Once a week. DH's job is very stressful and tiring. He is always tired. It annoys me.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:14 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

  • Once a week or so. I'm always the tired one. Between school, pregnancy and a toddler, I'm too pooped.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:15 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

  • we have two young children and have been married for six years. we have sex about three to four times a week. and then some weeks come and we only do it once or twice because "i'm" too tired. (it doesn't matter if my husband hasn't slept in two weeks, he always wants it, lol) i would be pretty worried about my marriage if we weren't having sex at least once a week or so. i think it's that important.

    KristaRene

    Answer by KristaRene at 4:18 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

  • What was sex again? I think we have sex once a month lol. I don't want to have sex at all.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:26 PM on Mar. 22, 2010

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