Do you think its wrong to have a threesome with your husband and another woman?

My husband wanted to add some spice in our marriage and ask me if i wanted to do a threesome. I thought it was okay. I haven't tried it yet but thinking about it. What do you think about it?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:12 AM on Sep. 21, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Bad idea
    MommyMel03

    Answer by MommyMel03 at 12:13 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • Its gross and inappropriate... you might as well let him go and have sex with a complete stanger without you there...aka cheating....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:14 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • It's something that my husband and I have talked about many, many, many times. And while we would both like to have a threesome with another woman we decided it was just an open door to a lot of problems we didn't want. The sexual gratification would nowhere equal the strain it would put on a marriage.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:19 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • nope, not worth it... think about it.. your hubby all over some chick and her all over him... i don't get it... Buy some lingerie or something.
    shaymariep

    Answer by shaymariep at 12:24 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • i personally have never done it and it hasnt been brought up in serious discussion, but personnaly i couldnt do it. i wouldnt feel comfortable going down on a woman or having her go down on me, and i am slightly jealous person so i would probably rip her eyes out for touching my man. to add spice i would buy a wig and some naughty clothes and meet up at a hotel
    cassie_kellison

    Answer by cassie_kellison at 12:26 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • It depends on the couple. If you're willing to deal with the possible outcomes (either you do it and you're fine with it, or you do it and you end up insanely jealous and paranoid) then go for it. Some people do it and highly enjoy it. Others end up getting divorced.

    I'm not being harsh, I'm being honest.
    So just make sure you weigh your options, and see if there's any other way you can spice up your love life without having to resort to another human being first =]
    caitxrawks

    Answer by caitxrawks at 12:33 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • i think its a bad idea cause what if he likes it and decides he wants to keep on having three somes or start doing stuff with that person behind your back ive found out thay guys who want to have three somes think about having sex with random people way before they show it or they have already done it and now wants you to be involved so he dont feel bad about it
    cocoa19

    Answer by cocoa19 at 12:36 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • Never heard anything good come out of one of those.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:55 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • What is the point in getting married if either of you still want to play the field? I would kick my husband to the curb if he even suggested a threesome to spice things up. There are too many ways to spice up your sex life without having to go outside of your marriage.

    AKEllen

    Answer by AKEllen at 12:57 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • Its not a good idea at all. What would you do if even if you were "safe" he ended up getting her pregnant? Trust me it happens.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:01 AM on Sep. 21, 2008

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