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If im pregnant and not married, should i marry him? or not?

Im not sure what do do. marry for the sake of our baby?

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iluvcoffee33

Asked by iluvcoffee33 at 9:51 PM on Mar. 23, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Do NOT marry just for the sake of a child!
    Marry him ONLY if you love him!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:52 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

  • no way! you can both be good parents without being married
    mrsjonzy

    Answer by mrsjonzy at 9:52 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

  • Im pregnant and not married to the father and dont really plan on it any time soon... we already feel married we dont need paperwork to show it.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:53 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

  • No.
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 9:53 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

  • no
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:53 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

  • i agree...do not get married only for the baby or you and your family will be miserable...only marry him if you are completely in love with him...i'm having a baby with my boyfriend but we have no intention of getting married any time soon cause we want to do it right....just wait
    aliishott2

    Answer by aliishott2 at 9:54 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

  • Never marry someone for any other reason then love and wanting to be with THEM forever.
    Children, outside family/friends, should have no factor in it at all. You are marrying the man, not everything/one outside of him. Your marriage with him should be happy, compatable, and forever. If you marry for any other reason then love and commitment to him (and only him) you will not be happy. I garuntee you that.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 9:56 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

  • No, not if he's not the one you'd want to marry if you were not pregnant
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:57 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

  • Agree 110% I'm pregnant with my second child and my fiance and I are getting married in may but we had already planned to get married before we found out about baby #2. Our son is 1 yr. So if you love him then marry him...but don't do it just because of the baby
    Regansmommy04

    Answer by Regansmommy04 at 9:58 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

  • american flag ribboni agree dont later it might be a mistake

    flaka3

    Answer by flaka3 at 10:50 PM on Mar. 23, 2010

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