My dh recently joined Facebook (after I urged him to). Of course, all of his old friends who he hasn't talked to in over 20 years have found him. Including some of his ex-girlfriends. We are pretty open with our accounts, so I thought. I saw that he has been exchanging messages with one of his ex-girlfriends almost every day. (I saw because I went to plug his iphone in the charger, and saw a pop up of a message). I also have his facebook pw.
The messages seem innocent, she's married. He's told her what he's been up to. She did bring up the past and asked him if he hated her, he said no...bla bla bla.
My problem isn't that he is communicating with her. I've communicated a couple times with an ex as well.
My problem is that he hasn't told me.
We've never had any problems. We've been married for almost 8 years with 4 kids.
Am I overreacting? Should I bring it up to him, or allow him his little communications?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:53 PM on Mar. 24, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by TarLion at 4:22 PM on Mar. 24, 2010
Answer by staciandababy at 2:58 PM on Mar. 24, 2010
Yes, I think you are over reacting. You encouraged him to join. Everyone knows that many different people from the past find you on there. Nothing sneaky was being said on the e-mail. Relax and don't see problems where there aren't any.
Answer by Cindy18 at 3:01 PM on Mar. 24, 2010
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