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What's the worst a husband who cheats or a husband who doesn't provide $$?


Asked by Anonymous at 5:47 PM on Mar. 24, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • wow thats a tough one both are equally bad. but have to say one who cheats is worse cause if need be i can go and make it on my own and hit him with child support

    Answer by gothmama91 at 7:36 PM on Mar. 24, 2010

  • I think one who doesn't provide $$. Men and women fall victim to temptation. It happens, it doesn't mean you're a horrific person (if you do it once, I'm not talking about crazy-ass Tiger Woods who clearly has a problem). But to not provide for your family means you never think about the long-term and don't try to do the right thing.

    Answer by danielp at 5:49 PM on Mar. 24, 2010

  • Probably the one who cheat, you can't trust a man who cheats. That is what i think anyways, a man who can't provide money could probably change, and I won't mind being the "bread winner". A cheater, seems to always cheat again, it's to big of a trust issue for me.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:50 PM on Mar. 24, 2010

  • I say the cheater...I don't know if I can stay with a man who constantly cheats, if my man didn't work I would find plenty for him to do around the house that I am not able to do...

    Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 5:52 PM on Mar. 24, 2010

  • i dont know about a cheater but i've been with one who lacked in providing and believe me that was not fun. I think he felt that I felt i was better than him because i was bringing home all the money so he threw himself a pitty party every night and of course had to bad mouth me to make himself feel better

    Answer by shay1130 at 5:56 PM on Mar. 24, 2010

  • A husband who cheats is worse in my opinion.

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 5:58 PM on Mar. 24, 2010

  • I would say the man who does not provide i know all about this mine was stuffing his face doing his own laundry knowing i was a stay at home mom an he said if i wanted to eat i could go to the food bank or get on the dole. yeah maybe they are both bad....

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 6:01 PM on Mar. 24, 2010

  • Cheating.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 6:04 PM on Mar. 24, 2010

  • A habitual cheater or a habitual non-provider? I'm going to go with the non-provider unless it was agreed upon that I would be the sole breadwinner. While both have serious character flaws, a man that is unconcerned with the welfare of his family is the lowest of the low.

    Answer by twin_mommy at 6:15 PM on Mar. 24, 2010

  • a non provider. i can take emotion pain, but my babies need a place to live and food in their bellies.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:47 PM on Mar. 24, 2010