Ok I've been with my bf for about 7 years and we've lived together for 6 years. We also have a five month old daughter. It seems like the only thing we do is fight. The problem is that when we do he gets so mean and says really hurtful things that he knows is going to sting badly. He always ends up saying sorry and we make ammends but I'm sixk of this shit. So he did it again today (he never thinks before words fly out of his mouth) and I told him its over and I want him out by the end of the week. Do u think u should rethink this for the sake of our baby? He may be a crapy bf but he is an excelent father. She is such a daddys girl lol. I just hate crying all the time but am I selfish for ending it now that we have a baby? I want her to grow up happy.Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 11:25 PM on Mar. 24, 2010
Answer by tabbys4 at 11:26 PM on Mar. 24, 2010
Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 11:27 PM on Mar. 24, 2010
I think if there isn't any physical abuse or the relentless mental abuse you do owe her a chance to have her parents together.Don't just agree to him staying but get some couples counseling.Tell him it is something you both owe your daughter.Go do the best you can at working things out and then if it doesn't work you both will know you did her best.I have been married 31 years and have been in counseling with my husband a couple of times.So worth it,have had friends it worked for and a couple it didn't but they felt more at peace about their decision.Good luck.
Answer by drfink at 11:33 PM on Mar. 24, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 11:34 PM on Mar. 24, 2010
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Answer by kortney712 at 12:43 AM on Mar. 25, 2010
Answer by MomMom23 at 1:05 AM on Mar. 25, 2010
when did his behavior start? after you got pregnant? after the baby was born? some guys have trouble with baby change. before the baby your focus and attention was all about him now the focus and attention is all about baby, and some guys have trouble adjusting and don't even know they are feeling the abandonment or jealousy. if you really love him you should sit down and talk about how he feels, and if he thinks this is the problem. and if it is find a babysitter (or grandma) and have a date night once in a while just the 2 of you.
Answer by northcarolinama at 1:09 AM on Mar. 25, 2010
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