My fiance is a conspiracy theororist. He believe the government is trying to control us and soon we will have no rights. It has gotten to the point where tonight we just broke off the engagement because I am afraid that he will resent me someday. Resent me because I can not support his ideas.
I get embarrassed when he starts to talk about these things. I don't understand why he believes these ideas and he can't understand why I don't! He has been listening to this crazy person on the radio and I believe it is filling his head and compounding the situation by reinforcing it over and over and over.
Can we agree to disagree? or are we doomed to live a life of resentment?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:38 AM on Mar. 25, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by samurai_chica at 7:32 AM on Mar. 25, 2010
My dh and I have literally NOTHING in common. What we do though is talk, talk, talk. I tell him my views on everything and he tells me his, even on little things like music etc. Then we agree to disagree, we try to really listen to what the other has to say though. We're polite and respectful to each other's views too. I used to be part of the LDS church and my dh strongly disagrees with that church. At one time I thought about going back and he just asked that I not make him go. In the car we'll take turns listening to each other's music, things like that. If you and your husband can do these things, your marriage can and will last. If he starts getting crazy about his World domination theories and begins taking it out on you, run. If he says or does hurtful things to you because you don't agree, run. Try sitting down with him and telling him what you want/need out of this relationship and see where things go.
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