i love DS. i really, truly do.. but for the last few days- i just dont want to be around him/be his mom. or a mom- at all. i dont want to spend time with him, or get him his food/drinks (he's been getting his drinks since he was 3- but sometimes he wants me to do it.. but since he was THREE?! i thought that he was just learning/maturing.. but i think its b/c he was kind of forced to get his own stuff cuz i wouldnt?!- i dunno, i question it now :-/).
i dont get any breaks from him. i dont get any me time- not even showers anymore. at least, thats how i feel. if i want him to, he'll be off playing video games, watching tv or outside on the back porch and he wont really "bother"/ask me for anything-- but he still bothers me when he talks to me. but i dont get time AWAY from him- like how can i miss you if you wont go away!?
i know- i'm a shitty mom. i want to change it, be a good mom- but i feel so helpless.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:44 AM on Mar. 26, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 1:46 AM on Mar. 26, 2010
Answer by cutie_pie200619 at 1:55 AM on Mar. 26, 2010
Answer by LANDENSMOMMYlmk at 2:00 AM on Mar. 26, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:03 AM on Mar. 26, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:07 AM on Mar. 26, 2010
"I cant stand being away from my son and cried my heart out that night. My husband feels the exact same way, we feel empty wo him."
Oh yea, like that's the perfect example of "normal". Cut OP some slack, it's normal to feel exactly what she's feeling if she's isolated like she is.
Op, get out get out get out. Go for walks, talk to your doctor, make a change.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 2:10 AM on Mar. 26, 2010
Answer by LANDENSMOMMYlmk at 2:26 AM on Mar. 26, 2010
Answer by LANDENSMOMMYlmk at 2:32 AM on Mar. 26, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:42 AM on Mar. 26, 2010
Answer by LANDENSMOMMYlmk at 3:03 AM on Mar. 26, 2010