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Did you have sex before marriage?

i did and i dont regret it ... and i have a child and im not married...tired of getting crap for it

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Asked by jaksonsmommy at 2:40 PM on Mar. 26, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • I did. My first child was born before his dad and I married, me second wasn't.

    I don't remember the last time I was hassled for it in person.

    Answer by Laila-May at 2:43 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

  • I did too..I have a son out of wedlock and im NOT ashamed, People are SOO quick to judge.!

    Answer by Movielover0226 at 2:43 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

  • yea we live together and he has both parents so i dont see what the diff is other than a peice of paper

    Answer by jaksonsmommy at 2:45 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

  • Yup

    Nothing wrong with it.

    I don't buy into the whole "Sex is dirty, so save it for someone you love" BS.

    Answer by MamaK88 at 2:46 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

  • We lived together before we got married so yes. I got pregnant with our first one month after we got married. Everyone, well those who couldn't count anyway, assumed we got married because I was pregnant. We got tired of the sly smiles and snide comments, explained how my pregnancy resulted from unprotected sex and all that. Then when our son was born well after he would have been if he'd been conceived before we got married, the talk stopped.

    Answer by wildflowers25 at 2:48 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

  • Yep.

    Answer by twin_mommy at 2:50 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

  • I had my son before we got married

    Answer by awelling at 2:51 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

  • Yes, I did. With *gasp* more than one person.

    Answer by DusterMommy at 3:03 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

  • No- I wanted to have one partner. I am glad I waited.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 3:03 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

  • Would you buy a car without giving it a test drive? Before I married my ex at age 21 (I'm now on 2nd DH at age 47) did I have sex before we got married. Oh yes, lots of it....and not only with him either.

    Answer by daisy521 at 3:04 PM on Mar. 26, 2010

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