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too tired to have sex, but not to tired to masterbate any thoughts ?

husband has been saying he is top tired for about 2 weeks, we only had sex once , and i initiated, he says he is too tired but he still gets his alone.. also how long after he gets his can he go again.. he got his and then said he was too tired to go another round?
plus he is not to tired to go to the gym

posted in relationships but not too many answers??


Asked by Anonymous at 10:17 AM on Mar. 27, 2010 in Just for Fun

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Answers (7)
  • Honestly masterbation takes no thought and you only have to worry about yourself. It's way easier then having sex. He probably needs a release and is probably too tired to have sex, it's a lot of work some days!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:02 PM on Mar. 27, 2010

  • How do you know he gets it alone?

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:19 AM on Mar. 27, 2010

  • OP... here , because he came it to the bed room and i tried to turn him on and he was acting weird so i asked if he took care of business and he said yes.... and i asked how long till we he can go another round and he said he was too tired and went to sleep.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:22 AM on Mar. 27, 2010

  • well honsetly mine used to say the same thing. but then i would come home and see a porn out of place or some in our computer history. turns out he was just not as interested in me bc he was over stressed from work. after his job situation calmed down he was himself again. he prob just having a hard time. so try something jus for him and give him a (pardon for the lack of better term) blow job lol give him a free orgasm then tell him you are going to bed to finish youself lol he will come around!

    Answer by secondtyme520 at 10:23 AM on Mar. 27, 2010

  • I wouldn't take it too personal. He might be going through something at work or with his family. (parents or siblings). Just give it some time. I know there's times when I'm not in the mood for it either. lol

    Answer by MLM0503 at 10:27 AM on Mar. 27, 2010

  • Possible porn addiction or cheating. worst case scenarios.i don't buy the work related issue. If he's tired or depressed,he'd have no sex drive at all,even for masturbation.

    Answer by TMJ121099 at 10:33 AM on Mar. 27, 2010

  • Maybe he is overloaded from work?

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 12:14 PM on Mar. 27, 2010