SO says he is attracted to me but only for the hopes that Ill lose weight. Baby is 4months now and Im not melting off pounds.
I dont have time, money, or drive to lose weight.
DOnt have a gym membership and cant afford to get one right now
Am a stay at home mom and BUSY with that
And overrall I dont want to go the extra mile just to be able to get a workout right now
So My thought is that'll be like this for a while...OVER WEIGHT
So I asked if I stayed this was would he stay with me, he said yeah, but he'd be unhappy with the way I look in the long run
Also...I dont even like sex anymore which is also hurting the relationship. I just do it to make him happy, he says he suspected it and we agree that if we cant be intimate in the most raw nature that maybe we should break up.
Any Thoughts...Im so confused... Sex and Attraction
Asked by Anonymous at 4:25 AM on Mar. 28, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by BJoan at 12:51 PM on Mar. 28, 2010
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Answer by alejandra559 at 5:58 AM on Mar. 28, 2010
He told you this stuff? After having HIS BABY? How old is this guy you are talking about? He must be young or very immature? Go to him and say if a little weight after having your kid is going to break us up. Well get out of my face then. Explain to him that you might not ever look the way you did before you got pregnant. If he is that superficial he need to not get you or anyother female pregnant again.
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