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a fight or a disagreement

Shld your husband ever tell you to shut the fuck up?????

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:34 PM on Mar. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • hell no i would slap my husband if he said that
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 1:35 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • My stbx and I used to (and still sometimes do) have some pretty massive arguments. We would always say things we don't mean when we're worked up and angry.
    While it's rude and inappropriate for him to say that to you, step back and take a look at the whole argument leading up to that point.
    Are you free from guilt? Did you say anything that was out of line? Did you say anything you didn't mean just because you were angry?

    It happens. It sucks, but it happens.

    Once you've both calmed down and can talk calmly tell him that him saying that really upset you and that you know it was out of anger.
    Make sure you take responsibility for what you did wrong in the fight too or else it'll just start another fight full of "Well you did this..." "But you said that..." and so on.
    Laila-May

    Answer by Laila-May at 1:38 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • Shame on him. That's just not nice....but were you constantly nagging and getting on his nerves?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:38 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • God no!
    rio_burb

    Answer by rio_burb at 8:46 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

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