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Me and My SO were arguing so

I just went and took a bath to calm down
when I got out he was gone and so was my baby
my baby is 5 months old, is breast fed, and he didnt tell me where there were going, or how long they would be or anything

Should I call the police
Im freaking out...seriously about to have a nervous break down

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:35 PM on Mar. 28, 2010 in Babies (0-12 months)

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Answers (12)
  • hes finally comming back, he just called, The only reason he said hed call back because I told him Id have the cops looking for him ASAP

    Im going to punch his lights out ...maybe not but i want to.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:13 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • If he is the father of your child and is on the birth certificate there really isn't anything you can do as of yet. Does he have a cell phone? Did you try to call him? Do you really think he is capable of kidnapping your child?

    If it were me I would assume that he wanted to get out of the house and calm down....I wouldn't assume the worst right off the bat.
    anetrnlov

    Answer by anetrnlov at 6:37 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • Does he have a cell phone? I'd call him and his parents and friends first.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 6:37 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • no he has no cell phone
    he left it here

    his parents are dead, cant call them
    closest friend lives in the next town over
    and all family lives 2 counties over...approx 100miles East

    and im unsure what he would do, everyone he knows is far away so I dont know

    WTF do i do, will the police even do anything...im having bad anxiety
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:39 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • Just call the police and ask them how to handle it. They need to be aware of a potential problem.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 6:41 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • if it was me i would just clam down. he could have went to a million different places. might have just went for a walk , get something to eat , and if he is the dad , and sign the bith certificate there is nothign the cops really can do
    aprilsalcro

    Answer by aprilsalcro at 6:42 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • Do you have joint accounts? Call or get online and see if he's spent any money since he left.

    Also, if you do call the cops have all your ducks in a row for the potential after math because there is a pretty good chance your relationship will end if all he did was go for a ride and he finds out you called the cops thinking he kidnapped your kid
    anetrnlov

    Answer by anetrnlov at 6:45 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • Im giving it 10 more minutes before I call the police
    Im freaking the fuck out


    Yes he's the father but I cant risk him taking my baby an hour and a half away, I dont even have car he has it
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:46 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • What did you two fight about that makes you think he would kidnap his own kid?
    anetrnlov

    Answer by anetrnlov at 6:46 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

  • CLAM DOWN LADY> YOU ARE OVER REACTING HE WILL BE HOME , I REALLY DONT THINK HE IS THAT STUPID
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:48 PM on Mar. 28, 2010

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