Define Sex? Oh God, I sound like Bill Clinton. LOL I'm a widow now, but I'll never forget the relationship my husband and had. Sex started the moment we woke up, with an "I Love You" smile, stolen hugs, sneak attacks from behind, never parting without an I Love You, a Welcome Home later, impromtu little massages when the other was tense, joining hands to solve problems one or both are having, Joining hands in prayer before meals and at church and understanding why it's not gonna happen tonight, when life has taken all the punch out of one or both, prayer together before sleep and then laying so close together thru the night that we were just one big blob. Physical sex is the flower that blooms, after you've done all the groundwork. When all the right things come together, it is so special that "could it be better somewhere else" never enters your mind.
at 11:11 AM on Mar. 31, 2010