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He used me.

DS's Dad. Been off and on last few months. Recently found out i'm apparently just the person that will be taking money out of his account every month. Doesn't give a shit about his Son, but acted nice to me so he could sleep with me. How can someone do that? HOW?

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LogansMama09

Asked by LogansMama09 at 11:03 PM on Mar. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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  • hes a man . thinks with his penis. im sorry =[
    threeeunder3

    Answer by threeeunder3 at 11:05 PM on Mar. 29, 2010

  • He's a guy that's how.
    Cindy18

    Answer by Cindy18 at 11:05 PM on Mar. 29, 2010

  • hummm.... i guess it makes more sense why some woman require a commitment before sex and a kid.


    use this as a lesson learned and move on.

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:08 PM on Mar. 29, 2010

  • thats just how most men are.
    Dont fall for it again
    rochellecole

    Answer by rochellecole at 11:08 PM on Mar. 29, 2010

  • But we had a child together. he was there for the first 7 months and then ditched. what the hell.
    LogansMama09

    Answer by LogansMama09 at 11:09 PM on Mar. 29, 2010

  • There's obviously a reason that you guys aren't "on" full time...
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 11:09 PM on Mar. 29, 2010

  • well if he did that then hes not worth having around, you dont want your son to learn a bad trait like that
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:10 PM on Mar. 29, 2010

  • The only way one can be used is to allow herself to be used. You made that choice, as have millions of other women. The way to avoid this happening again is to refuse to have sex with any man who has not committed to you first in marriage. I know it sounds old-fashioned, but that's the way that works. Remember, too, that you had a choice in this matter. Your child had no choice, and now he will grow up without a daddy. That should be reason enough to not repeat this mistake. Wait for a man who comes looking for a wife and not just someone who will hop into his bed. A man will promise love in order to get sex, and women will give sex, thinking it will get them love. Bad combination which rarely works out for the good.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:21 PM on Mar. 29, 2010

  • many men are jerks! He doesn't deserve you guys so move on. You don't want your child to have him as a role model!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:22 PM on Mar. 29, 2010

  • Guys do it a lot but remember that no one uses us any further than we allow them to
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:33 AM on Mar. 30, 2010

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