He was really sweet and asked me to help him with his gambling addiction. SO I have been checking the checking account daily and keeping tabs of all the bills. The problem is that we have not paid the mortgage and one of the credit card bills. I am so afraid he is going to ditch me by not paying the mortgage. We do not have the money so what should I say to him? He is a very good father and good hubby, and told me I am not a burden, but does anyone know what happens if you miss a payment with the mortgage company and major credit card? We are paying everything else on time and no late charges. So any advice? I am so scared ...I hope he does not bail out on me. I know he loves me but I am petrified....
Asked by Anonymous at 9:18 AM on Mar. 30, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by TarLion at 11:35 AM on Mar. 30, 2010
most mortgages have grace periods. ours is 30 days. always, always stay in touch with your creditors and let them know when you will be paying and what is going on. a lot of times they will work with you. also, ask them if they will defer a payment. they will take the payment due on the first and put it at the end of your loan. so you basically have a loan that is one month longer and you can skip this months payment without any penalties.
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