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My husband is in a crummy mood until he's ready for sex.......

Then he picks up the mood somehow and everytime.....I give in.
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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:55 PM on Mar. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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  • don't give in. If you don't want to have sex, then don't have sex.
    you are under no obligation to do so, wife or not.

    if you say now and he whines or begs, tell him not, and that's it. walk out of the room if you have to.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:07 PM on Mar. 30, 2010

  • Does he know that you feel this way? Talk to him if he doesn't. Men are dense, they are not like women, where we can pick up on things.
    Amber211

    Answer by Amber211 at 11:35 PM on Mar. 30, 2010

  • We must have the same guy
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:42 PM on Mar. 30, 2010

  • I think guys just want to have sex to get off and women want sex for the attention. My husband does this too and I feel cheated out of the best part of sex. When you say he picks up the mood, are you willing, or just being nice?
    meganlt

    Answer by meganlt at 12:10 AM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • WTH is wrong with him? Don't give in! What a jerk!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:23 AM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • It's something I've noticed since we got married a few months ago. Didn't know if it was just me or not in the beginning. I'm tired of playing this little game though.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • He may be using it as a way to relieve tension after being upset. Have a talk with him and tell him that you need more from sex. Then don't give in next time he does it. He'll learn.
    bjane01

    Answer by bjane01 at 8:26 AM on Mar. 31, 2010

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