I am going to try to explain this to the best of my ability...
I am not a church-going person. I believe in god, was raised Catholic, but dont feel that I need to go into a building with a bunch of other people to worship just like them. I can worship in my own way. (This is my belief, and opinion.) When I met my husband, he knew I was this way, and understood it. He used to go to church every Sunday (before I met him) but then around the same time I met him he got a different job in a retail where his schedule changes every week, and most of the time he has to work on Saturday night or Sunday mornings and night. So he couldnt go to church. Now it just so happens that he has off on Good Friday and on Easter, and wants the whole family, including me, to go to church. I really dont want to go, but he really really really wants us all to go........
Asked by Anonymous at 1:33 PM on Mar. 31, 2010 in Religion & Beliefs
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Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 2:09 PM on Mar. 31, 2010
If it was really important to my spouse, I would go. I don't think you should try and make someone, or guilt them into going to church. However he isn't trying to get you to go all the time. The choice is yours, but sometimes we do things because it's important to our spouse.
My husband goes to church with me, I know he probably wouldn't go if I didn't go, but he never says anything about not wanting to go. The fact that he goes anyway, without trying to make me feel bad or like he is being put out makes me appreciate him even more. Of course I return the favor, I don't know how many flea markets I've gone to, but I hate them all, and the sci-fi shows I've sat patiently through even though I have no interest.....what can I say it must be love.
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