How to get in the mood when you are not in the mood?

I can't help it I am just not feeling sexy when he is.

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:34 PM on Sep. 21, 2008 in Relationships

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  • I feel like that a lot of times too but I also have to think about my husbands needs. The minute we get into it I start getting into it and then when it's over I think to myself "I can't believe I was about to pass that up" lol.. Wow, that was good! lol


    We have 5 kids and I am so drained when we finally get them to bed but I always think of him.. I love satisfying him even when I'm not in the mood I push myself and I'm always glad I did :)

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:55 PM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • Figure out what makes you feel sexy or what turns you on, and bring it up to your husband. Then just work something out from there. I'm sure your husband wants to turn you on and just needs to know what to do.
    viv212

    Answer by viv212 at 9:47 PM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • Its hard to get in the mood at the same time. Especially if you both work. You can try to have just a day or a night set aside for just you and him. You will get excited and so will he when you both know that certain time you two have together is coming up and try to make it special. Sometimes a planned time helps your imagination start to churn and you think up all kind of sexy, crazy things to do to each other. That should get you both in the mood. I hope this helps. Good Luck!
    Dixiemom_71

    Answer by Dixiemom_71 at 10:43 PM on Sep. 21, 2008

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  • TELL HIM GIVE U ORAL
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    Answer by Anonymous at 1:55 AM on Sep. 22, 2008

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    Answer by passioncyndi at 2:16 AM on Sep. 23, 2008

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