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would u find this creepy or sweet?

i met a guy a few months ago, we hit it off immediately. well our lives arent on the same path so to speak, at least not at that time, so stopped talking for a while. i have one of those trackers on my myspace and noticed he visited his page so i checked his out, he posted a pic of him in candle light with the caption as "im confused right now but i do miss you so much" thought nothing of it at first be found out he was talking about what you think creepy or sweet?

and the pic wasnt anything weird just him sitting in front of a candle...he knows how much i love candles and that i find them romantic


Asked by Anonymous at 11:32 PM on Mar. 31, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • If he knows you like candles, it's not so creepy but more sweet. If he was just making a habit of sitting in the dark with a candle, that's creepy.

    Answer by rio_burb at 9:08 AM on Apr. 1, 2010

  • How do you know he was talking about you? I'd say creepy.

    Answer by txdaniella at 11:34 PM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • op here

    i emailed him to see how he was doing and he told me it was about me...i didnt ask about the pic either, just how things were going for him

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:38 PM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • I would say it was both sweet and

    Answer by Alizzie_Mom at 11:42 PM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • hmmm, unfourtunately i'd say creepy...

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:43 PM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • Creepy, why is doing sweet things over the internet.. that's weird

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:50 PM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • Uh.. well, a little of both. Sometimes seemingly creepy things are really coming from an innocent, sweet place and sometimes they ARE really coming from a creepy place. My husband did things that my family thought was creepy (I was 14 and he 18 at the time)... like send me roses and write me letters and give me gifts even though we didn't know each other super well. I even found some things creepy, lol, but stayed in touch (through letters) with him. When I was 17, we got together and now, we are married. Let me tell you- he is as normal as can be! Sometimes too normal! lol. So, it could be just sweetness... I would reserve judgement and just look out for other signs that something is off with him.

    Answer by Bellarose0212 at 11:52 PM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • I kind of think it was sweet --- sweeter if he put your name in the caption lol

    Answer by glamomomo at 11:53 PM on Mar. 31, 2010

  • He is clearly one of those dudes that get obbsessed right away.CREEPY!

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:06 AM on Apr. 1, 2010

  • IDK

    Maybe he just really liked the connection and he misses you, but he didn't want to just come right out and say it at first.

    If he was posing nude, I'd think THAT was creepy LOL But it really seems like he was just being kind of shy about it because he doesn't really know how you feel and he didn't want to just try to jump back into your life.

    Answer by BaisMom at 12:58 AM on Apr. 1, 2010