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Moving in

How long did u date your man before u moved in with him or him with you? How soon is to soon? Thanks

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:21 AM on Apr. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I moved in with my ex-husband when we knew each other for 3 months and got engaged. We were married for 8 years.

    I moved in with a boyfriend when I knew him for 1 1/2 years and I had a 4 year old. That was the bigger mistake. Would I move in with anyone again? Probably a girl friend....but never a man. oh dear, never say never.....

    Answer by kjrn79 at 11:23 AM on Apr. 2, 2010

  • My husband moved in with me within 2 weeks. We are going on 7 happy years this July.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 11:24 AM on Apr. 2, 2010

  • we were engaged in September and moved in together in January

    Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 11:24 AM on Apr. 2, 2010

  • We knew each other for just shy of a year, then dated for 6 mo., then he proposed.... then sometime during that 2 yr engagement (we were engaged so long because we were saving to pay for my dream wedding) I moved in. This went against his grain since we were not married... but it helped us save for the wedding.


    Answer by Anonymous at 11:25 AM on Apr. 2, 2010

  • anon:25 here.... that was over 20 yrs ago.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:26 AM on Apr. 2, 2010

  • We'd been dating for 2 or 3 months. Problem is I was pregnant. I don't advise it to go that way though, it turned out really bad which is what happens in most cases.

    Answer by LogansMama09 at 11:42 AM on Apr. 2, 2010

  • 8 months,we've been married 10 years

    Answer by TMJ121099 at 11:46 AM on Apr. 2, 2010

  • Offically one year but he was over all the time so it was more like 6 months.

    Answer by bjane01 at 11:54 AM on Apr. 2, 2010

  • It all depends on the couple and how their relationship is....I was with my man for less than 6 was probably like 3 months if that before we moved in together...and it was only because he got kicked out of where he was staying, so he came to live with me and my 5 month old...and now 2 yrs later we're still together

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:18 PM on Apr. 2, 2010

  • 2 years lol then i got preggo and we got our own place, lol wish i coulda lived off my mom a little longer and saved more money but oh well, we have made it a year and it looks good

    Answer by xxSummaxx13 at 1:00 PM on Apr. 2, 2010

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