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Does you husband tell you what to do ?

I dont mean like " get down and scrub the floor now" .... but things like when to go to bed, when or if you are going somewhere, etc.

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:31 PM on Apr. 4, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • No, he doesn't .......he would be my ex-boyfriend and not my husband if he was that type of guy.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:33 PM on Apr. 4, 2010

  • totally agree anon

    Answer by mommy16love at 11:34 PM on Apr. 4, 2010

  • Ha! Umm, no! If my husband ever "told" me what to do, I'd seriously think about a divorce. I am a grown woman, and NO ONE is going to "tell" me what to do... He can suggest things, and I can agree or disagree, but to be told to do something is absurd!

    Answer by wishwish at 11:35 PM on Apr. 4, 2010

  • Kinda. But it's not like i get in trouble if i don't listen. if i've been staying up late and i often complain about being tired, and he catches me staying up late again then he will tell me that i should be in bed and he will tell me to go to bed. ...but it's because he cares. I do the same thing to him. It's not really a command as much as it is a pleading.

    Answer by outstandingLove at 11:42 PM on Apr. 4, 2010

  • He has never told me what to do! There has been once in our relationship that he asked me to do something that I was not happy about, but out of respect for him I did it, and in hindsite it was the best thing. But even then, he asked, and would never think iof "telling" to do anything! He says please and thank you for every thing he asks of me, and never takes advantage of the fact that I don't tell hin no either.

    Answer by AK_aries at 11:42 PM on Apr. 4, 2010

  • no, because I'm an adult and he's not a neanderthal.

    Answer by autodidact at 11:47 PM on Apr. 4, 2010

  • My boyfriend jokes around with telling me what to do and I just laugh at him.


    Answer by JAIRATRACI at 12:12 AM on Apr. 5, 2010

  • I'm usually telling him when and if we are going somewhere! :)

    Answer by brookebella at 1:30 AM on Apr. 5, 2010

  • I wear the pants...


    Answer by Anonymous at 2:45 AM on Apr. 5, 2010

  • Not once in 25 years of marriage. I aam a grown woman and I can make my own choices. He doesn't tell me what to do, what to eat, when to go to bed, what chores to do, etc.. He knows he's not my dad.

    Answer by tracylynnr67 at 3:01 AM on Apr. 5, 2010

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