I met this guy about 3 yrs ago. We were attracted to each other but I was in a relationship at the time & we both respected that so we just remained friends. He then moved cross country for a job & we lost touch. He recently moved back & looked me up on facebook. We exchanged numbers & we hung out twice in the first week & talked every day. He told me had cancer, which is in the early stages so he should be okay, hopefully. Last week he started chemo & I came down with pneumonia so we couldnt see each other. Last thursday he was really depressed & not it a good place. I didnt talk to him on Friday or Saturday although I attempted to contact him on Saturday but he did text me Happy Easter on Sunday.
We started hanging out as friends when he came back but should I continue to pursue this as a relationship or just let it go? Im not sure how to take this sudden change but I still want to be there as his friend
Asked by Anonymous at 12:17 PM on Apr. 5, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by StefInfection at 12:31 PM on Apr. 5, 2010
I would continue as friends and see where it goes from there. He needs all the friends he can get at such a tumultuous time in his life.
Answer by Merjo at 12:34 PM on Apr. 5, 2010
Answer by Punky_1981 at 1:36 PM on Apr. 5, 2010
Answer by zbee at 2:57 PM on Apr. 5, 2010
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