Our first child we had practically all the grandparents in the room, just cuz i was to the point I didn't care I just wanted to baby out lol. But my MIL (at the time just BF's mom) wasn't really invited. My son isn't biologically DH's and the nurses started to say there were to many ppl in there, and my dad politely asked her to step out so he could stay. Well long story short she refused, dad left, till i cried and made bf go get him.
The second baby. She was very upset and down right bitchy when we switched hospitals (we went to one that had a strict limit on only3 ppl in the room). We told her I wasn't choosing between grandparents and it was just going to be DH and I. She constantly tried to get me to change my mind and made the pregnancy hell. She really got upset when I wrote in my birth plan, IF anything went wrong, my dad had the right to make medical decisions. (DH didn't know if he could handle it).
Asked by Anonymous at 2:40 PM on Apr. 6, 2010 in Relationships
Now i'm pregnant with number three, haven't said any of our plans, but I plan on yet again just me and him. ANd I fear she is going to do the same thing. And this time I'm living with her. Which means hearing it constantly. How can I explain to her this is what I want and nothing will change it. Without pissing her off
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