my fiancee grabbed me by the arms in an argument and was trying to force me into a wrestling match with him. he was trying to overpower me (it left his thumb print inmy arm) so i punched him in the face to get him off me......was i that wrong, i know violence isnt a solution but i was trying to break free and he was hurting me! i got bashed before for this and i dont understand whyAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:07 AM on Apr. 7, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:42 AM on Apr. 7, 2010
I definitely tend to swing a fist if I'm feeling physically threatened. If saying "LET ME GO NOW" did not work, then i might bite him, or do something to get him off of me. I have punched my ex husband in the face, when he hocked a lugee (snotty spit) right in my face & once when he hit me first. Luckily, my DH now is my best friend & extremely passive. We almost never fight & when we do, it never escalates to a point where someone feels the need to get aggressive. My ex husband WAS VERY aggressive, & i did feel like i had to protect myself at times. Glad he is out of the picture.
Thank the lord every day that he gave me a REAL loving man who would never ever disrespect a woman.
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