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Would you have a problem with your husband getting a lap dance at a strip club?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:41 AM on Apr. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • hell yeah I would. if he ever did, i would hire a male stripper to come to the house and give me a lap dance in front of him.

    Answer by Christina2135 at 11:43 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • Ha Ha Ha... My Hubby's 40 yrs old and has never even been to one... I would think it strange for him to even go to one. He say's why buy the milk when you can get it for free? LOL

    Answer by MrsLeftlane at 11:43 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • Sure would! Lap dances aren't free and in this economy money can be better spent otherwise not squandered on some hoochie shaking her a$$.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:43 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • This is the same question form earlier. I'd rather not know what he does when he's out. Unless you're a fly on the wall, how would you know? I truly believe a cheater always gets caught in the end so why drive yourself nuts?

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:45 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • I'd say that it depends on the situation. Is it a boy's night out? Is it a bachelor party where the strippers are doing more than they should? I say, a man needs his fun too. I've gone with him to strip clubs in the past and even paid for him to have a lap dance. It's not cheating...he's coming home to you, right?

    Answer by clhadley at 11:46 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • Yes, I would have a problem with it. Luckily, he wouldn't do that. His theory is "Why do I want to walk into a restaurant and pay to LOOK at a steak, when I can come home and eat all the steak I want for free? And frankly, if I DID just want to LOOK at the steak, I could at plenty of steak for FREE on the internet." He has no interest in strip clubs or porn, which suits me just fine. I've never been one to have a problem with either, as long as it's only looking, but the fact that he has no interest is fine by me, means I never have to get insecure.

    Answer by tropicalmama at 11:48 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • No i completely trust him. They are going to a strip club to have fun and that is part of the experience.

    Answer by Amanda7891 at 11:49 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • I would have a problem with my husband even being in a strip club, so to answer your question, yes.

    Answer by ThrivingMom at 11:49 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • I sure would. I call any contact that you seek out as cheating.This includes porn and internet chats

    Answer by TMJ121099 at 11:49 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • WOW!!! Some women are so uptight!!!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:52 AM on Apr. 7, 2010

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