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Be honest- Do you hink your kids are equally cute?

I feel horrible even saying it but I really think my first born son is cuter than my second. Whenever I am out with only my oldest I get tons of comments from people about how adorable he is and how he should be a gerber baby. This never happens with my second unless people are already talking to us (which then I think it's just something people say) But with my first people go out of their way to say it. I guess when I was pregnant I just assumed he would look just like his brother. Don't get me wrong I love them both equally and DO think my second is cute, but not AS cute.

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:23 PM on Apr. 7, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • OP here sorry bout the typo *think

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:24 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • OP here- sorry about the typo. *Think

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:24 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • i don't have two to compare...but i do think my son is cuter than lots of kids in his class. There are some though that are equally cute as him =)

    Answer by shay1130 at 6:28 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • i think my neice is cuter than my nephew when he was a baby. (my sisters kids.)

    Answer by shay1130 at 6:29 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • Well, I only have one right now. So yes, she is equally cute with herself.

    Answer by PhoenixFire at 6:36 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • Just never let the kids know how you feel and don't ever treat them different, even if it's just little things because kids and others will notice and bottom line it's just not cool. I have 3 biological and 2 step kids. I think out of my 3 that there all cute, my step kids I think my step daughter is cuter than her brother...but he would never know that, I would never want to hurt him like that.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:45 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • OH here- I would NEVER let them know it. I feel bad enough fessing up on CafeMom hidden behind the anon button! LOL

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:47 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • Not equal but different.

    I think all children have a cuteness about them for various reasons so even if one child is cuter by society type standards there is still something to be found cute or sweet about others.

    Answer by Amaranth361 at 7:22 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • All mine look a lot alike so it would be hard to say one is cuter than the others.

    Answer by JAIRATRACI at 8:37 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

  • No - my kids are all very different and have different things that make them cute. My oldest is really good looking - blond hair, green eyes, great smile; my middle son is a handsome 10 year old, already has broad shoulders and tight abs, naturally streaked hair, very photogenic; my daughter has blue eyes and blonde curls and people are always asking me how much I paid to get her hair "done" and telling me we're going to have big problems in a few years! And then there's my 16 month old who always gets comments wherever we go about his cuteness, big eyes, gorgeous thick hair. They are all very unique and I think they're the best looking kids ever! (i'm just a little biased)

    Answer by missanc at 9:31 PM on Apr. 7, 2010

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