When my DD was born, my dad & his wife started "just dropping by." I am not a fan of this. Especially with tem, as even when they are invited they tend to overstay their welcome. DH & I may be tired, or hoping for a moment alone if the baby is napping, or what if we're in the midst of an arguement?
Anyway, after the first few times, I told my dad not to do this (spiced w/ some post partum hormone ) & he has pretty much called first since. But his wife (who I know also knows how I feel) continues to do it. I've been polite & let her in... But last night I was alone w/ DD & had only defrosted a small amount of steak for dinner and she "stops by" right at 6 & stayed till after 8 pm! I didn't want to invite her to eat so we ended up not eating till almost 9. If I say something the next time she drops in, I'm sure she will take offence, but what else can I do? keep the doors & blinds drawn & hide if she pulls up?
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