DS is 4. BD was only in his life for less than 2 months, when DS was 3 (a month before he turned 4). DS still asks about his BD, but not much.
BD is a BAD person to be around. really, really bad. right now, he's facng 13 years in jail and wants to see DS before his courtdate (could be lessened to probation and drug rehab). i say hell no. with his past and even current lifestyle (to just yesterday!) his life is NOT good- for him or for our DS.
but DS wants to see him. they havent seen each other since Sept 09. and if DS didnt see him, i dont think it'd really matter much. but i asked- and he wants to. i think if BD was able to explain why he was going away for a long time (that he's still sick and needs help), DS would be more accepting of it... and maybe even if he's convicted for those 13 years, they can still write letters and stuff...? but i just dont know. what would you do in my position?
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