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If you're a submissive in the bedroom-

Do you tend to be the more dominant or forceful partner outside of the bedroom? My husband and I were having a discussion about this tonight. I'm the sub when it comes to bedroom activities, but outside of that realm, I tend to be more of the decision maker. (Either that, or I'm the nagging one who won't drop it and he's too nice to tell me.)

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:46 AM on Apr. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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  • That just about sums it up for me too. Interesting.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:47 AM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • Ooooh yeah! I control the house, he controls me in bed.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:47 AM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • Yep same here. Lol we let them wear the pants in the bedroom so we can wear the pants in everyday life :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:03 AM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I am a submissive in the bedroom and outside but only to my husband. . he likes it that way and so do I .

    Answer by janet116 at 1:22 AM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I'm not really submissive in either area. We tend to be pretty much equal all the way around. I tend to defer to him on some decisions, simply b/c he knows more about whatever it is, but we mostly handle everything together. In the bedroom, we just do whatever feels good on that particular night. It might involve a little submission, it might not.

    Answer by tropicalmama at 7:40 AM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I'm submissive outside of the bedroom and we switch roles in the bedroom.

    Answer by anetrnlov at 8:13 AM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I'm submissive in and out of the bedroom, at least outwardly. I make my wants known and since he generally just wants to make me happy, his decisions generally line up with what I would have chosen anyway.

    Answer by missanc at 8:31 AM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I'm submissive in the bedroom, I like it that way. I'm passive and easy going outside of the bedroom, but not exactly submissive, if that makes sense.

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 3:12 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I am completely submissive in the bedroom (which includes me being in control if that's what he wants) but outside the bedroom we are a pretty equal 50/50 team. I try to let him make the big decisions, but he never makes a decision without us talking about it so my feelings and my opinion are always taken into consideration. If it's something that I feel very very very strongly about, I have no problem speaking up and standing my ground, but we are very compatible so we don't have that problem.

    Answer by TarLion at 4:10 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • Yes, I am lmao..

    Answer by khf22 at 9:11 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

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