So DH and I were working in the garden today and I mentioned I wanted to plant more this year than last year. Last year I was prego and trying to keep up with 2 gardens. He started asking me, "Isn't that going to be too much work?" and all kinds of question that made me feel like he didn't have confidence in me. I was thinking, WHAT? I'm the one who takes care of the garden anyway, why does he even care? But he was talking like he does all the work. I was totally mystified and a little ticked. I think it touched a nerve because he's a bit dissatisfied with how I take care of the house in general, and I always feel like he thinks I'm lazy. I bitched at him a little. I want to make peace, but i really want him to understand. My confidence in myself went way down when I got married. But if there's one thing I KNOW I do well, it's grow one heck of a vegetable garden....
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