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how soon would u get remarried if you got a divorce from a bad marriage?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:23 PM on Apr. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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  • as soon as I found another man I felt worth marrying.

    Answer by glamomomo at 11:23 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I agree

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:25 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • never

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:25 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • Well, I think one should wait at least a year prior to even considering marrying someone else, cause you might end up marrying the same type of person.  I think we all need sometime to be on our own, to get our emotions settled, especially after an ugly marriage.


    Answer by Anonymous at 11:26 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I agree with a previous post "As soon as I found another man worth marrying."
    I would take any new relationship slow without any expectations of getting remarried. If it came to the point where marriage was the next step then so be it, but I wouldn't go into a relationship thinking "Is he the one?" I would just take the relationship slow and have some fun.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:29 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • If I were to get divorced I would NEVER get married again. I never make the same mistake twice

    Answer by hisblueeyes at 11:30 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • It would depend how long we were married and how much of a betrayal it was. If it was really bad, I might never be able to, not that I'm recommending that. It would depend on my kids, too. I might wait until they were grown if it was better for them. But I think I wouldn't for at least a couple years.

    Answer by Adelicious at 11:30 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I have no idea lol ... I hope I never have to think about it, but with that said I wouldn't know until I was in the situation....

    Answer by kaylan010 at 11:38 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • it would take a while,clearly it wouldnt be smart to jump into another relationship right away. i would take my time and pick better since i had a problem picking wisely the first

    Answer by BUSYLOVINGHIM at 11:49 PM on Apr. 8, 2010

  • I am currently going through a divorce and I honestly can't see myself marrying again. Hell I can't even see myself dating anyone.
    My stbx has pretty much ruined me for all future relationships.

    I know not all men are the way he is, but I've lost confidence in my ability to sniff out the ones that are since I was just duped by this one.

    Answer by Laila-May at 12:03 AM on Apr. 9, 2010

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