he was there when the child was born because he broke up with her, she got pregnant and when they got back together, she was 6 months pregnant...so he basically played father to this lil boy because his real father wanted nothing to do with the boy, she was just a fling...so now they have been broken up since last summer n now we are together...he has a 5 yr old of his own and I have a 3 yr old....but he still says he has ties to this other lil boy (his ex's son) and he explained the situation to me....the child is NOT his (he is a dark skinned black man and the kid looks puertorican and mom is a brown skinned black girl)he is 2 yrs old....I feel akward knowing about this and being with him would consist of me having to accept that he might still want to be in this boy's life..... I understand he has his own biological son but this other one...i'm not really sure about.... there's nothing I can do but accept, right??
Answer by Adelicious at 1:39 AM on Apr. 9, 2010
At least he isn't just dropping out of this boy's life like so many men would do. I would be happy that I had such a good man. I would be proud of the fact that my man was man enough to stick around even if the kid wasn't his.
Answer by JAIRATRACI at 1:58 AM on Apr. 9, 2010
Answer by FL2AK at 2:06 AM on Apr. 9, 2010
Answer by lildudesmomma at 6:46 AM on Apr. 9, 2010
Answer by Christina2135 at 8:39 AM on Apr. 9, 2010