My husband and his ex wife have always had a very rocky relationship. She calls begging for money and tells my SS not to listen to me and that he's allowed to punch and kick me. He's 9 now and let me tell you.. That only happened ONCE! lol. Anyways, we've been married for 4 years also. Well up until this last month, things have been decent. They would meet us when we took him home. They moved over an hour away and work with us on schedules, things like that. Well, his ex got pissed because my SS stood up for me to her (she was calling me names) and now she wants us to pick SS up from her house and drop him off there. ( 1 1/2 away) and is trying to dictate what we do with him. Because my DH won't stand up and be a man, I make him take off work to drive his son back and forth ( I used to until it got changed) because I see no reason in giving in to her. So he's mad and won't speak to me. I feel like if he stood up to her .contAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:22 PM on Apr. 13, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 1:24 PM on Apr. 13, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:29 PM on Apr. 13, 2010
She sounds kinda immature. He needs to put his foot down if it is putting a strain on your relationship and finances. As for the 'he still loves her' part, yeah, that would be a no go for me. He married you. They are divorced. He shouldn't have married you if he still loves someone else enough to put you on the back burner. Having feelings for the mother of your child is one thing. Still being in love with her is a whole nother ball game. He needs to decide which one of you he loves period. Not the most. If he can't let go of her then I'd leave. That's not fair to you.
Answer by sunshine06 at 1:32 PM on Apr. 13, 2010
Answer by mommy2treyson at 3:45 PM on Apr. 13, 2010