I thought my husband didn't love me he neglected me in almost everyway. I tried to do things that would help our marriage but he always decline. Over time I grew bitter and wanted out of the marriage but I remained. I confided in a women at work she was like a mother to me and she knew of my unhappiness. In the summer of 2008, I met someone where I worked. We became friends and he often visited my department. He was intelligent, handsome, witty, funny, gentle, kind, and all the things that I am attracted too. He often come by my department to talk to me and in a short time we became very fond of each other. I told him in the beginning I was married, naively I told him we could be friends. I respected status and tried to set boundaries. However, I fell in love with him but he lied to me. Now my heart needs to be with my husband but it needs repair. How do I get pass this stage besides time?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:41 PM on Apr. 13, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:42 AM on Apr. 14, 2010
Answer by NikkiMomof2grls at 7:52 PM on Apr. 13, 2010
Answer by bjane01 at 7:54 PM on Apr. 13, 2010
It sounds like you just want attention because you don't want to be alone. You don't want your husband so you stray to another guy. That doesn't work so you want to have things be ok with your husband again. It sounds like a big mess. Honestly, I think you should take a step back. Have some you time and figure out what it is that is really driving you to want your husband 'back'. If it is for the wrong reason, admit it and move on. If you really do love him and lost your way then you should come clean with him and ask him to work things out. Either way you should come clean.
Answer by IzzeAddy at 8:08 PM on Apr. 13, 2010
Answer by Bearsjen at 2:03 AM on Apr. 14, 2010
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