My S.O. (whom I don't live with) and I don't see each other very often, because he works graveyard shifts and then sleeps during the day. When he comes to my house after work, he is mostly sleeping, and interracting very little with the baby (21 months) and me...which is understandable.
But he doesn't seem to understand that I need to spend alone time with him. He keeps saying that he does understand, but he is working to afford a car, so that he can take us places (his old car broke down, and I don't drive). His days off are not consistent, and when he does get a day off, he is often tired and sleeps most of the day.
It's getting to the point where he doesn't even remember to kiss me when he comes over. He says it means nothing, that he loves me, but I'm offended. Is it just familiarity? We've known each other for 6 years and are very comfortable with each other.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:47 PM on Apr. 14, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by MeandMyBabes at 1:51 PM on Apr. 15, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 8:48 PM on Apr. 14, 2010
That's weird you have a child and don't live together! Are you really young? 3rd shift is really hard on your body and its difficult to have a normal life when you work like that. I would just talk to him straight, ask where he wants this relationship to go..
Answer by kjfamily at 8:51 PM on Apr. 14, 2010
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