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how would you deal with a neibor who only likes you when they need something from you?

she acts like she hates me except when she needs something.....really driving me nuts!

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cassie_m

Asked by cassie_m at 7:58 PM on Apr. 15, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • simple...don't give in to her. if she's not going to be a good neighbor then you are not obligated to do anything for her
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:00 PM on Apr. 15, 2010

  • i agree, you dont owe her anything.
    jennifer588

    Answer by jennifer588 at 8:05 PM on Apr. 15, 2010

  • I would stop opening my door to her.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 8:06 PM on Apr. 15, 2010

  • iv tried that but my husband still will. its retarded. he and i got into a fight because he gave her a cigarette 2 days after she and i got into it.
    cassie_m

    Answer by cassie_m at 8:07 PM on Apr. 15, 2010

  • Well i would not get even open the door for her and if your DH does tell him to shut the door and she gets nothing if she can't show respect when she does'nt need something then she needs to check herself.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:16 PM on Apr. 15, 2010

  • start asking her for stuff!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:20 PM on Apr. 15, 2010

  • Just reply with "Sorry, I can't help you with that."
    Pnukey

    Answer by Pnukey at 10:34 PM on Apr. 15, 2010

  • I've known many of people like that. Tell her to FU#$ OFF. I just got done with a "friendship" like that. Life's too short to put up with dumbass people.
    SinaiJ

    Answer by SinaiJ at 2:11 AM on Apr. 16, 2010

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