i asked the Q ab Dh getting more free time to hang out than me and a few ppl said i shouldnt let him treat me that way. i have tried talking to him and he suggests that i get out of the house bc plenty of woman go out (with their kids) and have fun during the day. he also said that he will start letting me have more time to myself on his days off (this discussion was a week ago) but so far he has been out 3 times this week (once while i went to work). i know where he is and who he is with, i know they have a band and are trying to record an album (its his hobby) so i try not to be bitchy about it. he promised that he would take us all out but couldnt bc of weather, and the next day was gorgeous and i wanted to do something then, but he had already made plans to go hang out that day so i got shafted again. what can i do to let him know im serious. im 26, hes 23 n i dont want to be a bitch ab it and act like his mom, but i need
Asked by Anonymous at 1:41 PM on Apr. 17, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Mrs.B3 at 5:36 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:46 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
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Answer by Precious333 at 2:00 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
You do not need time for yourself, you want time for yourself. You are already taking 2/3 nights away from your family for your own money. You are trying not to be bitchy sounds like you are being bitchy. Why would he want to do things with you or for you?
Give up your job since you don't need the money. If you want time for yourself figure out how to do it without making it be his problem. Trade childcare with another mom. Hire a neighbor teen. Whatever. Don't try to stop bitching, stop bitching and he may want to do more family things.
Answer by Gailll at 2:14 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
Answer by 3gigglemonsters at 2:37 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:41 PM on Apr. 17, 2010