my kids get alot of bruises. They fight with each other alot and throws toys at each other and push and hit each other and fall alot and my oldst son teacher keeps calling social services and when i ask her about it she denies it and im getting tired of them coming to my house i have been reported like 4 times already and im about ready to loose my mind and the last time they were here it was because he had a scratch on his neck and im getting so aggravated over it how can i make this stop i have requested a meeting at schoolAnswer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 6:37 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 6:41 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
I agree, the kids need to be taught to keep hands, feet and all objects to themselves. I never allowed my boys to hit each other in my prescience and if it happened when I wasn't around then the one who did the hitting got grounded and had to apologize and shake hands with his brother or give a hug. It would suck to have social services called by some busy body teacher or neighbor if there really was no abuse going on but a child beating up on another child can be a form of abuse.
Answer by Anonymous at 6:44 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
Answer by MummyLuv at 6:46 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
Answer by RhondaVeggie at 6:51 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
Answer by hotmami2ajae at 7:55 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
Moving schools has been one tactic some parents use. The other is just calling the state agency that governs your local social services. If you think that social services has come out time and time again and they have found no reasons to keep an open case, and they keep coming out for the same type of reports,...report social services. You have a right to not be harassed. You cannot stop a school or teacher from calling in potential or suspected issues. In fact, it is not their job to determine if it is abuse or not. They are not allowed to investigate situations. They do have to legally report it. But on the flip side if social services gets too many calls from one source over the same things that are unfounded - then sometimes they do not take those calls anymore or investigate them. Like when the ex calls a dozen times for giving kids ice creme for breakfast.
Answer by frogdawg at 10:21 PM on Apr. 17, 2010
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Answer by jamiethornton26 at 10:08 AM on Apr. 19, 2010
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