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im 8 months pregnant. and my boyfriend acts nonchalant now like he doesnt care about anything. and he blames everything on me saying I have changed. what should i think? is he cheating, should i leave him, what should i do?


Asked by Anonymous at 9:43 PM on Apr. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • is this different behavior on his part. has he all of a sudden become uninterested? its impossible to know what u should do but one of the most important decisions we make as women is who is to become the father of our children. he hasnt married u?? is this your choice?? u need to b thinking of the events that r about to change your life now. talk to him and listen to what he has to say. if he tells u he is not interested in being a father believe him--the first time-- and figure out, using the resourses available to single mothers how u r going to take care of this baby and yourself by yourself. if he isnt interseted there is no way u can make him b but u can make him pay child support. get on it so u have something to come home too for u and yr babies sake. good luck!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:03 PM on Apr. 17, 2010

  • You could be acting different and not even noticing just because of your hormones. Tell him he needs to cut you some slack your body is going through a lot right now. And you need support from him. Good luck.


    Answer by jenae_gist at 9:46 PM on Apr. 17, 2010

  • It sounds like u need to talk. Perhaps he is having issues about the baby? Is he cheating? No one can really answer that except you. Try to spend some time alone and just talk. Remember to listen to him carefully, many times we women hear what we want .

    Answer by my2kids312 at 9:52 PM on Apr. 17, 2010

  • your pregnant! you are different! lol especially if this is your will change a lot after that baby is born, and it's not a bad thing. You go into mommy mode and your main concern is your child. Men don't usually snap into that change as quickly as women...

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:53 PM on Apr. 17, 2010

  • look he maybe under some differant stress that you don't know about and you are to and that you both need to undersatnd that things will get better... let him know that you love him and ask if there is any thing you can do for him

    Answer by paurad at 9:54 PM on Apr. 17, 2010

  • I think you need to talk to him. You are different now than before you got pregnant, and you will be different once the baby is born. He maybe having some security issues or fears about the coming baby and fatherhood. If you think he is cheating ask him, then you can decide what to do.

    Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 9:56 PM on Apr. 17, 2010

  • It's all about the baby. You are pregnant which makes you in the spot light. And when the babies born, be ready for him to be like a big dog thats outside looking in while the cute little kitty gets to be inside and sitting on your lap. You just need to show him some love right now. I'm sure all he hears is the baby this and the baby that...even if that's not what you're saying. And be ready to give him even more love when the baby are like kids, they don't see that you're bussy...they just see that you aren't giving them what they want.

    Answer by GotToHaveFaith at 10:06 PM on Apr. 17, 2010