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Are they just as selfish or not the same?

Pregnant moms who smoke and pregnant moms who choose to use drugs during labor

If not explain why you feel it is different

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:43 PM on Apr. 18, 2010 in Pregnancy

Answers (45)
  • No they aren't the same. Anon did you get sick of crying in the other post? Is that why you had to start your own?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:45 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

  • Can people not live and let live nowdays?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:48 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

  • Not crying Like I just said in the other post love the hypocrites who bash a mom cause she smokes. Yet, used the drugs during labor.... yes it is the same both are selfish only thinking about themselves not their babies
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:49 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

  • I smoked through my pregnancy and had some drugs during labor...my dd was born perfectly healthy and happy and is now 17.
    Merjo

    Answer by Merjo at 5:52 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

  • I smoked through my pregnancy and had some drugs during labor...my dd was born perfectly healthy and happy and is now 17


    Would you consider your choices selfish? Did it make you a bad mom as these other woman claim?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:55 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

  • Anon 5:55 - NO, not at all selfish. If that makes me a bad mom, then I must be the world's worst.
    Merjo

    Answer by Merjo at 5:59 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

  • Did it make you a bad mom as these other woman claim?


     


    Why should ANYONE be so concerned about what these " other women" claim? Try this grow up and ignore them. Does it get you any where worrying about what they say on cafemom???

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:00 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

  • personally, I think it is just as terrible. IMO
    KaRaBaSsEtT

    Answer by KaRaBaSsEtT at 6:03 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

  • You can't be serious.
    wildflowers25

    Answer by wildflowers25 at 6:05 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

  • Very serious... I laugh at all the so called perfect moms on here who bash other moms yet they are hypocrites. The get their feathers all ruffled over seeing a preg mom smoke. Yet they will drug their newborn babies and IMO it is just the same putting your self and your needs before your baby
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:11 PM on Apr. 18, 2010

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