I am considering doing this but my dh says the house has to be clean and dinner ready when he gets home... Uh! I can do that... What do you ladies think?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:46 AM on Apr. 19, 2010 in Just for Fun
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 3:10 AM on Apr. 19, 2010
You considering being are a stay at home mom, not a housekeeper/cook. Being a SAHM is a big enough job, you don't have to do anything else. A husband can help with housekeeping and cooking or help can be hired.
Answer by Gailll at 2:49 AM on Apr. 19, 2010
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 3:02 AM on Apr. 19, 2010
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 3:06 AM on Apr. 19, 2010
LOL If my DH told me that i would ask him what day the maid would be starting on. I am not his maid or his cook, I do clean the house and cook for my family but i decide when dinner will be on the table and if it is an hour or 2 hours after he gets home so be it. My house is clean but there are days i am not home and i dont get to everything. the term SAHM is really misleading, many of us are not home we are off running kids here and there, running errands, helping at shcools. I think your DH needs to be realistic about what a SAHM is. I personally prefer the term family manager lol because that is what i do, I manage our family, the bills, the home, basically our lives. I am the one who keeps the schedule decides who does what chores and I am the one who makes sure the house and family run smoothly. It is lovely that your DH doesnt consider the millions of things you will be doing as a SAHM cont'd