I have. I lost my true love because I was bound by a terrible family secret. I wish I could just pick up the phone and tell this person what was wrong, and why I had to leave. Too many years have gone by for the secret to hurt anyone now. I just need to get this out and off of my mind so I can go on with my life. I don't know what impact this would have on the person I kept it from. I have written out the secret, prayed to G-d about the secret, but this person needs to know why, it is stuck in my head that this person should know. HELP!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 7:27 PM on Apr. 19, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by admckenzie at 7:47 PM on Apr. 19, 2010
Answer by BUSYLOVINGHIM at 7:28 PM on Apr. 19, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:28 PM on Apr. 19, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:34 PM on Apr. 19, 2010
Answer by myheartx4 at 7:37 PM on Apr. 19, 2010
The secret is this: I was a victim of incest and this man and I were to be married. I could not go through with the marriage because I felt 'dirty' and my attacker made it clear that marriage was not going to stop him from doing whatever he wanted with me, married or not. I ran away. As far away as I could get. Left no idea of why or where. This man I loved very much, he always wondered why I would not kiss him or even hold hands with him, even after 2 years of engagement. I did not want to bring him into a situation like that. What kind of life could we have had? I don't think it would change his life any, he married someone else, quite happy with his life. It is just that nagging thing on my mind that says, he should know that I dearly loved him, loved him enough not to let him get caught up in the crap of my life.
Answer by Anonymous at 8:24 PM on Apr. 19, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 9:28 PM on Apr. 19, 2010
Answer by xxSummaxx13 at 7:04 PM on Apr. 22, 2010