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Are you a wife first or a mother first?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:28 PM on Apr. 19, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • I really try to be a wife first because I think that's what ultimately keeps a family happy but I think I usually end up failing and am a mother first most of the time. I'm a work in progress.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:30 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

  • I am a wife 1st.

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:30 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

  • I'm woman.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:31 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

  • It is always most important to be a good mother. Your children come first no matter what. Wife most definitely comes in second to mother. My daughter will always come before my husband and for my husband she will always come before me.
    imamommmmyyy

    Answer by imamommmmyyy at 9:31 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

  • Mother first
    hisblueeyes

    Answer by hisblueeyes at 9:32 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

  • mother first always.
    my2kids312

    Answer by my2kids312 at 9:33 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

  • Mother first and always....
    soyousay

    Answer by soyousay at 9:34 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

  • haha i like the woman answer, but besides that i'm absolutely a mother first. they rely on me more for guidance and NEED my love more for so many reasons... even if my husband does rely on me and needs my love, he's a big boy and should be able to handle himself! :)
    juliness

    Answer by juliness at 9:34 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

  • mommy 1st... NO ONE and I mean NO ONE comes before the kiddos
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:36 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

  • I really don't have a one way answer,lol. In some instances I am a wife first and in other instances I am a mother first. It just depends whats going on. I'll just say I'm a prioritized and first come,first serve,LOL.
    kimberlyinberea

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 9:37 PM on Apr. 19, 2010

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