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how do i feel happy

with who i am.
an not be so lonley
im a younger single mom an it hard.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:15 AM on Apr. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Moods begin in thoughts. Focus on what you love, even if it isn't about you right now. When I focus on what feels good in life, it bleeds into everything else.
    There's no one on this planet exactly like you, and that is a beautiful truth. Allow yourself to feel good, simply because you prefer to. Nothing outside of you, is capable of creating a feeling in you. There are people in relationships who are lonely too. It's perception.
    It's up to you.
    Being a single mom is hard sometimes, and sometimes it's a breeze. Everything is temporary, just move with it and make up your mind, to feel good no matter what.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:32 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

  • im a young mom 2 and i know what your going though...it might sound wierd but everytime i feel that way i go and i accomplish a goal or sumthing i wanna do rather it be buying a new shirt or completing a new training at work or school.Just get out and do sumthing girl!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:39 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

  • thank youuu guys sooo much
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:44 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

  • look at it the correct way...you are an amazing person providing and you are far from alone,you have God and your baby :) the chances of you finding someone are so high because you are young :) best of luck
    BUSYLOVINGHIM

    Answer by BUSYLOVINGHIM at 2:16 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

  • It sounds like you are not quite sure who you are as a person. Maybe it's time to find out. Explore your interests and 'find yourself". The journey can be amazing.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:11 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

  • one of the things that saved me was making friends with other single moms - we helped each other with kids, which helps alot with stress, and i made some of the best friends i ever had - they helped me not only with parenting and lonliness, but i began to value myself alot more when someone else did. just remember, you're a wonderful baby's mom... figure out what makes you happy, not what you think should make you happy or what others tell you makes you happy. pursue that.
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 11:17 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

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