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Making a list

How did you figure out who to invite to your wedding?

After getting our family down we are at a stand still on who to invite!

Oh and we aren't very close with a lot of people because we are home body's, so it's hard to decide on friends that we want there.

how did you handle this?

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Asked by Jessie1689 at 1:21 AM on Apr. 20, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • Elope, thats how we handled it

    Answer by mom2priceboys at 1:25 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

  • We each made a list of every friend we wanted to invite, then we went over the lists together and picked out the ones we hadn't seen or really heard from in a year or more.
    Then we narrowed it down more by eliminating people that we felt were more acquaintances than friends.
    We took out a lot of people that didn't know both of us. I kept my best friends that he didn't really know and he kept his good friends that I didn't know but the rest of them were scratched off the list.

    It doesn't take long for the invite list to get hugely long and while we would have loved to have been able to afford to feed that many people or rent a place big enough, it just wasn't realistic financially.

    If you would go visit them in the hospital and if they would visit you if you were in the hospital, then invite them.

    Answer by Laila-May at 1:38 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

  • Eloping is not an option here, both families would be devastated and hurt.

    Thank you laila-may that is very helpful... though it does only add maybe 2 people or so! lol man we so need to get more friends!!

    Answer by Jessie1689 at 1:49 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

  • i invited anyone that loved us

    Answer by BUSYLOVINGHIM at 2:14 AM on Apr. 20, 2010

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