i stopped by my ex's today to see his mom. we broke up 9 years ago cause we werent ready for anything long term at the time and remained best friends. he said he still loves me and keeps wondering what if...i feel the same for the most part but im afraid of gettin hurt. i am divorced and my ex husband was abusive and kept cheating on me so now im guarded. my ex bf is a great guy we been there for it all, his divorce and mine.( his wife kept cheating) we seen each other at our worse and we still care and love each other, but i dont know how to get past this fear of gettin hurt again advice please?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:45 PM on Apr. 20, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 7:21 PM on Apr. 20, 2010
Sit down and talk to him, find out if he would be willing to try to work things out again. It's possible, that you have your guard up with him, because you don't know how he really feels. If you can't seem to trust, and open yourself up for a relationship, then you may need to seek couseling for your problem, and figure out how to work through it.
Answer by Punky_1981 at 12:58 AM on Apr. 21, 2010
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