Do i have a problem? We have sex probably 2 or 3 times a month now...we had our first child 1 yr ago on friday. Anyone else have this problem? he feels his self esteem is getting low because he feels im not attracted to him anymore, because before we had the baby we had sex all the time. But when he asks and im not in the mood, im just not in the mood and i say no. I dont know what to do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:44 AM on Apr. 21, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by admckenzie at 11:48 AM on Apr. 21, 2010
Sux, don't it? Even without problems men need an enormous amount of ego boosting. I agree, see a Doctor and tend to any physical, chemical problems and let go of anything in the past that may be also affecting how you feel. By design, we are made to be extremely sensative and feeling in order to carry out the mission of motherhood, but that can work against us as well. Have you considered that his "overzealous " for you is his way of reaching out to you for help? He trusts you... grab each others hand and find that solution together, not as opponants. I know exactly how you feel and by the grace of God, I woke up to this fact. Prayers for both of you.
Answer by GMMOLLY at 12:26 PM on Apr. 21, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 6:20 AM on Apr. 22, 2010
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